Messy Can't Stop Her

Why Some Smart Women Stay in Abuse

Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO) Season 10 Episode 4

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Why do smart women stay in abusive relationships? JKO breaks down the reasons that keep smart women in abusive dynamics. She also shares safety steps that women staying can take. 

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode 

8 reasons women stay 

The prison you do not see 

The place of trauma bonding 

Why leaving can be impossible even with a social safety net 

3 safety steps to take while staying 

Key scriptures: Malachi 2:16, Romans 8:35, Psalm 82:4 

References 

Domestic violence non-profit in Nigeria: Toniabruisedbutnotbroken 

Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area. 

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